OVER THE RIVER AND THROUGH THE WOODS

By the time thanksgiving or fall break rolls around, everybody is ready to be home. To sleep in their own bed, to eat home cooked meals, to relax in the comfort of their own couch. I was definitely one of those people counting down the days ‘till I finally landed in LAX.

I soon realized however, that traveling during the winter-ish months from State College is no easy feat. If it weren’t for my partner in Spanish class telling me about the snow storm, I would probably have been stuck in state college for days.

My flight was on Thursday evening, a nice 28 minute flight from State College to Philly, and then a five and a half hour flight from Philly to Los Angeles. (Philly and LA airports are probably the worst ones to ever be built in America, just a little FYI). Well, it turned out that State College was about to be hit by a massive snow storm, the likes of which would most definitely cancel any flights going to or from the rinky dink University Park airport.

I called my mom in a panic and told her about the storm. She displayed two options, one: I could hitch a ride with my friend to philly on Friday and take a five am flight on Saturday morning, or she could rebook me for a flight that was slated to leave two and a half from that current moment. I decided fast: I’d be leaving that Wednesday night before the blizzard hit.

Unfortunately, I had only a 40 minute layover, and my flight from State College was delayed so I had exactly 7 minutes to get from gate to gate, a feat that usually is a thirty minute walk. I was in a panic. I sprinted to and from the bus and made it just as they were closing the gate, utterly winded.

Once I got home I had an amazing break. I saw everyone I wanted to see. I had the best time. I was lucky to have made my connecting flight and to have been able to change my flight so last minute. I thought this whole getting home experience was pretty wild. Never have a run that fast through an airport before. Little did I know that this would be nothing compared to my struggles returning.

Of course I wished I could have stayed home and relaxed longer in the warm southern California weather, but I knew I would be returning soon. And to be honest transitioning from school to home and back again feels much more natural than you might think. So when I got to LAX the Sunday before school started back up again, I was confident that their wouldn’t be any problems. No more snow storm, I was cool as a cucumber.

My flight left ontime and landed early in Philly. I ate chipotle during my three hour layover and caught up on some reading. I boarded the flight to State College ready to knock out in my dorm room after a long day of travel. “30 minutes to State College,” the pilot said even before we took off.

25 minutes into the flight, the pilot comes on the intercom and says, “Hello everyone. Unfortunately, the visibility in State College is very poor right now, so we are going to have to turn and head back to Philadelphia. We apologize for the inconvenience.” Soon after he made a flying U-turn. We were headed back.

50 jaws dropped simultaneously, most of those 50 being Penn State students. Chatter grew throughout the cabin as we learned that the next flight to State College would be going out on Tuesday and it was already fully booked. The flight attendant handed out free beer to those who wanted it.

We were left with only three options, stay the night in a hotel with indefinite plans, take an Uber, or rent a car. By the time we landed in Philly, the entire airport was closed. It was 11 at night, and fifty people were stranded. Soon, groups started forming. I allied with 6 total strangers. All girl students, and we decided to rent a car.

We hiked to the other side of the airport in the cold, suitcases in hand, packed all our stuff up, squished into the rental car, and hit the road. On the way we encountered a sleepy driver and almost got in an accident, and we drove through some crazy fog. We had no idea who the people sitting next to us were, but we trusted one another completely. We had to.

By the time I got back to my dorm it was 4:30 in the morning and I was preparing to wake up at 8:30 for my 9 am. To say I was exhausted after all that is an understatement.

For my first passion blog post I wrote about how everyone asks me why I chose to leave California to come to Penn State. And I mean literally everyone. Stories like these justify their curiosity. I know this wont be my last travel struggle, it is the first of many. But the thing is, I wouldn’t change a thing. We out-of-state students may not have tailgates every weekend, or a family line of Penn State Alumni, but we bleed blue and white just the same. We love it enough to run through airports and travel for over fifteen hours to get back to happy valley. I am where I am supposed to be, even if that means living in the center of Pennsylvania. I love Penn State, and for that, I will sing my love and loyalty to dear old state.

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HOMESICKNESS

And now, I finally talk about something that almost all college freshman deals with in one way or another: homesickness. Oh yes, homesickness may not be an actual mental illness, but we all know people who have abandoned their school because of its grasp on their life.

We are told that geography plays a roll in this phenomenon. To this I have to agree to disagree. Homesickness is not something that comes from missing a place per say, but from missing home. If you don’t establish a little piece of home away from home, no matter where you are homesickness will bite at you like the impending winter here in Pennsylvania.

When I went away to school, everyone told me how valiant I was for going so far away. And when I got to school, everyone told me, “oh, I could never do that.” I have spent a long time wondering, why? Why is everyone so hesitant to go a plane flight away? Why can’t people see themselves going somewhere far away?

It’s true, more than half of Penn State students are from Pennsylvania itself. And I can count on two hands how many kids from my high school who went out of state, and even fewer who went all the way to the east coast. But why? With how much teenagers complain about their home, their school, and their families, you’d think that they would be far more willing to leave, right?

I think that this notion about geography having to do with homesickness plays a roll in this. Every mile away seems like a catalyst for being miserable. But my experience couldn’t contradict this more. For me it mattered more what school I went to, not where I went. Which is why I wound up in the center of Pennsylvania.

I have loved my experience so far. Sure, I miss my parents. But I’m not so far away from them, really. I know I can call them whenever I want. My friends are also just one faceTime away. I think one of the biggest blessings of going far away is that I can’t go home easily. Whatever I have to deal with, it is my job to figure it out if I am able.

I knew I was ready for this. I’m not running away, I’m ensuring that I can’t run away from my problems by going home. By going far away I have made my home even more special, it is something to look forward to. It is a sacred place.

I was ready for the three thousand mile difference, but I certainly know people who weren’t. When I miss home so much it hurts, I just remember that no matter how far away I am, it is still my home. My family is still my family and their love doesn’t diminish with the distance. That’s all that matters to me.

Before my parents left, my Mom told me something I will never forget. She said if I ever get lonely or homesick or sad, I just have to remember that we are looking up are the same moon. No matter how far apart it seems, we are more connected than ever.

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Oct 24, 20183 min read

Political Stickers

The rise of Red Bubble stickers are quite something. Imagine your in the commons or the library where people are studying, and about seventy-five percent of people have their computer covers plastered with stickers, each one representing apart of themselves. Some reference favorite television shows, some are jokes, some represent where the individual is from, some are cheesy, cliche, encouraging statements, some are politically focused, some are religiously focused, some are flowers or waves or mountains or…

You get the picture. I wouldn’t be surprised if you made this observation already. But if you haven’t, I encourage you to go to a library and take in all the playful illustrations confidently displayed on people’s computers. It is overwhelming.

I, for one, am a supporter of this sticker movement. There is nothing better than going on Red Bubble and picking out stickers that represent me. It is positively fun. But what you don’t think about when your picking out way too many stickers is, that these will be displayed for everyone to see. Everyone in the room is going to know who you are and what you like, in an instant.

So when I pulled out my computer for the first time in class I was suddenly overcome with insecurity over my sticker collage. I thought the people next to me would judge me for my stickers. Would make pre concieved notions about who I am based on the labels I have willingly put on my computer.

In particular, I was worried about my political stickers. On the top of my computer I have a sticker picture of Barrack Obama and Joe Biden laughing together, it is one of my favorite stickers actually. But I was worried that people would look at that and think, “oh this annoying liberal hippie girl, I don’t want to talk to her.” A little dramatic, I know. But that is honestly what went through my head. After all, I wasn’t living in a strong blue state anymore.

Moving from one of the most liberal places in America to a relatively purple state, I was nervous. I expected to be judged or isolated for my beliefs. But that has not been my experience. For the most part, all of the political conversations I have had, the people I speak to have not only agreed with me but shared my ideals as well. I have found Penn State to be a place where my political beliefs can flourish and grow with me, not be constantly shot down like I had thought would happen.

Of course, there are still people who ask me, “Wait so do you like Obama?” because I’m from California. I just smile, pull my computer out, and show them my Obama-Biden sticker. Then their eyes find the “future is female” sticker and they say something along the lines of, “Oh you’re really from California.” Yep, that’s me.

But besides this, the political persecution and judgement I was expecting was completely ill founded. In a way I was the one who had pre-conceived notions about Pennsylvania being conservative, that’s why I believed I wouldn’t fit in here. But I was wrong. I am accepted, I am encouraged, and I am able to prosper here in Pennsylvania. And if you told me that a year ago, I never would have believed you.

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